Money & Meaning
A living library for building wealth with purpose
Money is a tool. Meaning is the goal.
Here, you’ll find resources to help you align the two — so your financial decisions reflect your values, your vision, and your life’s work.
Guns and Butter: A Lesson in Building Wealth
Inspired by a memorable scene in the 2001 film:
Baby Boy
In a signature scene in John Singleton's movie, Baby Boy, Melvin explains that guns are assets that hold or grow value over time — like property, investments, or a business — while butter is everything that brings enjoyment now but tends to lose value quickly, like clothes, cars, or vacations.
Both have a place in a meaningful life. Butter can bring joy, connection, and experiences that matter. Guns create stability, options, and the ability to pass something on. The key is balance — making sure you’re building assets while still enjoying the fruits of your labor.
Interactive: Guns or Butter?
Test your knowledge. Is it a long-term investment (Gun 🔫) or short-term consumption (Butter 🧈)?
✨ Money & Meaning Digest
A weekly dose of clarity, protection, and grown‑woman financial wisdom.
⚖️ Legal Wisdom of the Week
Legal Trend: A “Permanent” Higher Estate Tax Exemption
Recent tax law changes have locked in a higher federal estate, gift, and generation-skipping transfer tax exemption, with the basic exclusion amount set to reach $15 million per person in 2026, instead of dropping to roughly half that level as previously expected. This shift gives families more room to transfer wealth during life or at death without triggering federal estate tax. But “permanent” in tax law is never truly permanent—future political changes can always rewrite the rules. Why it matters: Reviewing your plan now helps ensure your documents and strategies still match your intentions, rather than relying on old assumptions about expiring exemptions.
💼 A Financial Story Worth Your Attention
New research on the “great wealth transfer” estimates that about $124 trillion will pass between generations by 2048, and women are expected to receive most of it. Roughly $54 trillion is projected to go to surviving spouses—95% of whom are women—and another $47 trillion to younger women inheriting from parents and relatives. At the same time, women’s control of financial assets is rising globally and is expected to reach 40–45% of retail financial wealth in the U.S. and EU by 2030. This moment positions women not just as beneficiaries, but as primary stewards and decision‑makers of family wealth.
🏛️ Estate Planning Insight of the Week
Recent estate planning reports show a powerful tension: 83% of Americans say estate planning is important, yet only 31% have a will in place. Financial anxiety, inflation, and misconceptions about needing to be “wealthy” to plan all contribute to procrastination. At the same time, more families are expanding their definition of legacy to include digital assets, pets, personal values, and non‑traditional heirs. This shift is a reminder that estate planning is less about how much you have and more about protecting what—and who—matters most, in a way that feels aligned with your life.
🌱 Gentle Money Move for the Week
Take ten quiet minutes this week to write down a simple “legacy snapshot”: who you’d want to make decisions for you, who you’d want to receive specific assets or keepsakes, and any causes or communities you’d love to support. You don’t have to solve everything at once—this is just a gentle first draft. That small act of naming your wishes can make your next conversation with an attorney or advisor feel calmer and more grounded.
💛 A Note From Sherri
As you move through this week, remember that tending to your money and your legacy is not about perfection—it’s about care. Every time you choose clarity over avoidance, you’re building a softer landing for your future self and the people you love. I’m proud of the way you keep showing up for your life with intention, even in the small, quiet steps.
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